No Title :p

I was thinking to update my blog as soon as I get back from work... Yes I know I promise to update more often.. But last time it was the mood that is not there, but then I have all the time in the world..haha..
But, these days it's not the mood that is not there... But it's the TIME! Sob sobbb... Seriously, to blog, you need to have both. Otherwise, I'll come up with something crappy..and unfun... Like this post. Pffft...

Sigh... I miss my blog! But I rarely have time now.. I can only blog at night time..or weekends.. if I rajin la..haha.. But that rarely could happen, because by the time I get back home, I just wanna have some me time.. Chilling, eating, bathing for 1 hour (haha :p), watch a movie, or just about anything that doesn't require me to switch on my laptop... And when it comes to weekends, I just wanna hang out and have a life with my friends or myself (haha) or with anyone! So yeah.. These days I really don't know when to update this blog! Sigh =(

Hmm... Maybe because I just changed job...and I'm still getting the hang of it and still getting used about the timing and everything... So, there's a little adjustment to be made in my life, to slot in some time for my blogging time! hehe. So, yes, stay tune...and bear with me pleaseee! Don't go awayyyyy ya.....There's a lot of things I need to kepochi in here! haha

Anyways, like I said... In the mean time, I'll blog something boring (or could be interesting to some of you), like this! ^_^

A cute love quote! ;)

Ok, till then.. See you in next post!!




XOXO,
S.

Wordless Wednesday : The "Congrats Flowers" :)

;)

XOXO,
S.

Lovers, Which Stage Are You? This, :) Or this :(

Every relationship goes through stages. Where and how each stage develops is ultimately up to each person. While we always hope for the best, we often can't avoid the inevitable.

The most unfortunate fact about a relationship that doesn't work out, is the inevitable path both parties are on to become strangers. Many relationships follow a general path, through a set of different stages, one that brings two strangers together, takes them through a period of deep emotions and meaningful experiences, then returns them to where they began :'(

Josh and Marissa are at a crossroads and their future is uncertain. In this video, Josh guides us through each stage of the relationship as it formed and as he predicts it will end up as.. 

Yes, this video really hit me right at the center of my soul, which is why I am sharing it with you... Cuz every time I watched this video, it brought me to tears.. Sob sob.... It's so sad and so true and so deep. Some words really really touched my heart! Oh, how I wish all the lovers in the world could just stay at Stage 3!  :'(

Well.. This is the "typical" relationship stages...  In the film, Josh enumerates the 7 stages in his relationship with Marissa, starting from the moment they met in the park for the first time, up until the end of their relationship where they became strangers, again. So, what are these stages? Are they really the stages we can find when we go into a relationship? 

In the film, Josh enumerates the 7 stages in his relationship with Marissa, starting from the moment they met in the park for the first time, up until the end of their relationship where they became strangers, again. So, what are these stages? Are they really the stages we can find when we go into a relationship?

Stage 1: Meeting
This is the time where Josh first met Marissa in the park, and he went all the way trying to impress her. In the end, even though he was dead tired, it paid off because he got her number and made a good impression. This is the beginning, of what they believe is a beautiful relationship.

"It's so pathetic how guys would do, just about anything for the right girl" - Josh


Stage 2: The Chase
Josh says that this is arguably the best part. This is the stage where you try your best to get to know the other person, doing almost everything with one another. This is where two people become so blinded by their love for each other, that all they see is how great the other person is, and how lucky they are to have found this person. When everything turns out right, eventually, you'll reach the next stage.

"All I wanted to do was hang out with her... The only person I wanted to talk to, was her... She was the number one priority. She was everything that I thought could be perfect in a girl." - Josh


Stage 3: The Honeymoon
This is the stage where the two are officially a couple. This is the time where they could do everything to show their love for each other. This is the time where you would really get to know the person you love, knowing every detail of his/her day-to-day life and finally understanding who he/she is. However, all this would eventually simmer down, back to "normalcy". Which takes us to stage 4.

"It was the time when we could finally, fully express our affection to each other and do everything we wanted to do as a couple. It was a dream come true, the girl I wanted so, so badly was finally mine." - Josh


Stage 4: Comfortable
This is the most important part of the relationship because this is where each person can truly be themselves around one another. I consider this is the 'turning point' in a relationship, and it can either go two ways. The relationship could continue to grow, and they could live happily ever after, or it goes downhill, as you begin to take each other for granted. The movie doesn't explain what would happen if the relationship would continue to grow, it focused on how Josh and Marissa drifted apart. If this happens, it takes us to the next stage.

"Being comfortable isn't necessarily bad, its when we can truly be ourselves. But it depends on what you do with that comfort. Some use it positively, continuing to work at their relationship, and grow together. But others allow it to create distance." - Josh

"The bottom line is, someone stops trying and feelings aren't as strong as before" - Josh


Stage 5: Tolerance
This is the stage where it's gonna be very difficult to turn around, if not impossible. This is when the two people would constantly fight as a couple almost every single day, usually about the little, petty things. However, all these small fights would continue on, and the distance between you grows with it. This is when you just can't stand the other person anymore, and the two of you break further apart. The next stage is close to inevitable from here on.

"When Marissa and I got to this stage, I couldn't believe it and I was pretty disappointed. Somehow, the girl I was so crazy about a year ago, had turned into someone who just wasn't that special anymore. It happened so gradually that I didn't even see it coming, but there we were, just tolerating each other." - Josh

"Arguing is one thing, but feeling unhappy and dissatisfied with the relationship is another. We tried various times, to try and make changes, to fix things, but like so many couples out there, it wasn't enough. We became one of those relationships where it wasn't bad, but it wasn't great. And let me tell you, that's never a good way to describe a relationship." - Josh


Stage 6: Downhill
In this stage, problems just continue and arguments never get solved. But the two of you wouldn't even remember what it is you were fighting about. This is a very short stage because the transition from stage 6 to 7 happens very quickly. This is when, the relationship just seems so bad, that you couldn't see anything good out of relationship anymore. You're only choice is to break up.

"There's not much time left once you're here.  The effort to try to make things work, just isn't worth it anymore. Problems continue.. arguments don't get solved...
I  dont really remember what we argue about... Sigh.... What did we argue about?" - Josh


Stage 7: Breaking up
The end of the line. This is when the two of you believe that it's for the best if you break up. You talk about it, and you both mutually agree that you shouldn't be together anymore. Sometimes, the two of you can still be friends, but it's not usually this way, because most of the time, the two of you would become strangers, again. Eventually, moving on is the only way and things between you two will never be the same.

"I think it's for the best." - Marissa

"This is when the two of us will start a new path, right back to where we started, strangers. Our lives will continue wanting different directions.. becoming strangers again. and everything we share will just become fragmented memories. From so long ago i'll questions if it even really happened. And all that will be left... Just this... A box of random stuff from a faded period of time when this stranger was the most important person in my life... Sigh. What a shame." - Josh

"Marissa: Do you realize..there's only two options for our future together? It's either we break up..or we get married...?

Josh: Never really thought of that. 

Marissa: You think we get married? 

Josh: Geez.. that's a lil' weird question... Why? You wanna get married to me? 

Marissa: I don't know right now.. 

Josh: me neither.. 

Marissa: do u wanna break up with me? 

Josh: Of course not..

Marissa: Well..its gonna be one or the other. What do you think will happen if we don't end up together? We gonna hate each other? You think we'll keep in touch?

Josh: I think, that if life separates us n we end up in totally different places.. I'll always remember when I passed the line for this period of time..and i'll be thankful for that  and I hope that wherever you are, you'll be thankful too. And I think thats the best we can wish for..."

-the end-

All of these are the stages of a relationship going downhill as described by Josh. In the long run, there are only two alternatives, it's either you get married or you break up. That is why being in a relationship, being with someone you truly cherish, is quite dangerous. Because the risk of losing the other person is HUGE.

Some say that the best things in the world are those in which you are willing to risk a whole lot, in order to obtain. The question now is...

Are you willing to risk it?

:'(

xoxo.

Shazwani's Shirts For Sale! :)

Hey girls! Shazwani's Closet is updated!! hehe.. I've cleaned out my closet last weekend..and I have assembled all those unwanted clothes of mine to be handed down to those who are interested to buy them... Don't worry, they are all affordable and still in good shape! ;)
The reason for me to get rid of them is just because I need more space for my wardrobe... So yes, they are still wearable.. Pleaseee buy them from me. I really need to clear out my wardrobe asap to make more room for the newbies! Heeee ;p

Anyway, these are the first batch (there are more to come!) I'll do 10 first kayy... Too many.. Can't do everything in one batch.. So anyway, do tell me and email me if you would like to buy 'em!  But I gotta tell you, these are not that very very good/quality pictures..and I don't know whether you can see the clothes clearly or not.. I really hope you can.. So that you can judge it yourself.. Hmm... =/

Oh and, sorry that I did not iron the clothes and capture them nicely, taken from various angles.. They're too many! Can't afford to do that... - So sorry, I was kinda in a rush, distributing all the clothes according to: "For  Bibik", "For Kampung", "For Sale", "For Friends", "For Sedekah", and... "For ME" - I found some of the clothes that I've been searching for God knows how long already! haha

So here it is! (All prices exclusive postage charges. Please add RM 5 for shipping, kayy..)



1. Elle Colourful Stripes Shirt. (this used to be one of my favourite shirt. But noww... I can't fit in it anymore! sobs..)

 M size. (Fits S to M size)

Material: Cotton

Bought at RM 159

Selling at: RM 40

Status: Sold to Amisah

While I was Missing in Action....

Here are some of the pictures I took while I was living under the radar.. Do you miss me? Well.. I do! haha.. I miss me blogging. My friend said, I am starting to have a life again. And by saying that, she meant a "normal life", because I didn't bother to update anything here online. Not on Facebook, nor Blog. Only tweets - cuz that's the simplest one and can be accessed so quickly while on the go. haha. Anyway, she used to tease me saying bloggers are boring people who are bored at home that needs to update things online, every now and then. Pfffttttt. Oh well... online is the only thing I like doing at home, besides cleaning (and sleeping ;p). I don't like watching the telly. I don't really fancy reading books at home (if I were to read something, I like to read them while on a journey or while at the salon doing my hair). So yeah, there's nothing much I can do while at home other than online-ing. So yes honey, I'm a bored blogger whose butt likes to sit at home and update things! haha ;p

Oh well.. but these few weeks, I've been in and out a lot of times. And a lot of things has happened, and I just got so tired when I'm home.. and the mood to update was not there. So, that explains why the sudden silence... Heeeee. (I was so close to say goodbye to the blogging world, you know! - cuz I was kinda get used to not having to open up my laptop and starts typing things! haha)

Hurmmm... Does that mean, I'm living a "normal" life now? haha. My friend must have been so proud of me! hahaha ;p

Anyway.. here are some of the things I did..

1. Travel by Air Asia by myself for the first time ever! (I was a bit jakun riding an Air Asia! hehe ;p)

2. Jalan-jalan cari makan ;p

3. Went to the Universal Studio with my brother and my friends

4. Sightseeing

5. Went to my friend's wedding (which I've yet to receive the pictures - my camera died. tskk)

6. Shopping

7. And more shopping ;p

8. Dining with A'ai 

Steak at Tforty two

Hey..do you like my earrings? It's a heart shaped! Me likeyyy! hehe

9. More dining (with friends. At TGIF, A'ai's treat! Thank youuu!)

10. Dessert hunting

11. More and more shopping ;p

(a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do rrrighttttt?? haha. I need more working attires! That's WHY. lol ;p)

12. The best friend came over to catch up on things and gossiping stuff with me.. And also, to learn from me how to tie a knot in the scarf and also get a little tips for the make up for her dinner.. hehe. So cute lahh youuu! Sila datang rumah saya dengan kerap lagi yerrr? hehe

(Naz... we really need to book a day out lahhh! Jom amik cuti and go somewhere nakkkk? heheheh ;p)

13. The Tajine clan. Business talk. haha

14. Celebrated Rashdan's birthday

15. Went for a Magic Color Lens special bloggers review session at The Gardens (will blog about it later!)

16. Tried on a new look! haha ;p

And finally.... My fave part... (or maybe yours too! hehe)

17. Clearing out the closet to put more new stuff in my wardrobe! haha

(Stay tune, I'll update my sales blog SOON! ^_^)

18. Oh and lastly, back to blogging!!! hehe ^_^

XOXO,

S.

Sorry.....

Hi everyone... Do you miss me? I do! LOL ;p
Hmmm... Sorry for the lack of updates. I've been busy, in and out, settling a few things that has been bugging me...so I've got no time to open my blog.. And especially when the internet connection has been so weird at my house lately...tskkk.
Ni pun guna iPhone... =/

Anyway...let's hope that the Internet at my house will recover soon! And let's also hope that I've got the mood to blog again! Hmm... I miss blogging... But lately I just...don't have the mood anymore.. (Oh no.. Aging??! Haha ;p)

So...let's hope I'll be here again in the next few days with exciting stories to tell you! Hehe ;)
Okay, take care everyone! Tata!



XOXO,
S.

The Maldives Trip! :)

Before I start, let me warn you that this post contains about 260 pictures.

image source: google

Yes, you read that right. It's a lot of photos in here! So... be prepared for your PCs and laptops to lag a little! hahaha ;p
(I'm so lazy to do a post day by day... So, sekali harung semua gambar in this post, ok?! Plus, I was there for a few days jer pun! hehe ;p)

Okay let's start! Happy viewing! ;)

Sigh... Another Impostor!

Hmm...

Sometimes I get a message, people telling me..some bloggers "steal" my photos, and claimed it's theirs. Like taking my stationary collection photos, my accessories stuff, my make up collection, my shoes collection and et cetera.. Haihh.. Well, as much as I don't like that, (because you know.... at least put some credit for me la.. - I took my time to snap the photos, and then to transfer it into my laptop..and then to edit and resize it, etc... And lastly, to upload it in here some moreee, so the least you could do, is to watermark my name on the picture you took, or give some credits to me larr..) Right? But well.. These days, I don't know why I just don't want to do or say anything about it.. Maybe sebab I terasa macam funny je orang-orang macam ni, pretending to be someone else..and lying to their friends and family, and strangers/readers about their stories/life..  So I guess, the reason why I don't want to say anything just yet..cuz I don't want to spoil the fun and just wanna keep on reading and see what's next, that they are going to lie and say! hehehee ;p (It's like..this is my own joke, that I keep to myself... Heeeeee ;p)
I mean, yela...it is not threatening me or my family... even though, it IS annoying sometimes, seeing these fake people... But...Hmm..entah lah...


But when I found out about this thing the other day, I just couldn't keep quiet anymoreeee. Because really, I think when it involves 'people', it is REALLY a serious case already.. It's scary. It's freaky. It's threatening.

Like, my sister's case. Seriously, she copy-pasted everything, bulat-bulat and claimed that our family is hers!! (But changed our names, of course). She's living in a delusion! That psycho girl is sooo freaky! Knowing that she was my sister's ex-roomate tu yang lagi scaryyyy!! tskk.

And now... the case that I just found is... me.


Someone tried to be me. Well...the person didn't exactly change names like that psycho girl did, but  instead, she use my name (only spelling is different) and took a lot of my photos from this blog, and pretended she is me, on Facebook.


Well at first, I think it is not really such a big deal...I mean, that is still my face, and it is still my name.. So basically he/she is just making another account for me. So I thought nothing to worry about lahh..and just wanna keep quiet like I always do..
But..then, after much thought.. I really think I should make an action about this. It's threatening and it's kinda bothering me.  The person could do anything with the account, and my life is on the line!!

It's scary and freakyyyy okayy?!

Wanna see? Here's the FAKE SYAZWANI'S (with a Y) account on Facebook!

Now let's see...what did the person put on his/her page....

Hurmmm..... Her hometown is in Kampung Kabong Sarawak? Hmm... yadda yadda yaddaaa.....Worked in CIMB. Schooled in SMK Kabong (Where the heck is thattt?). Graduated from UPM Serdang... bla blabla.... Hmmm.... Nope, all of these are not ME! (Btw, look... she made an album for that Fashion Valet event that I attended last few weeks..Pffft)

Okay...let's move on,, what else does this person wrote...

Now this is my favourite part....

None of these are my favourites! Musics, movies, etc...NONE!
Siti? haha. I only like her make up. Not her music. And Avril? Well.. I only listen to her songs, but not make her my idol/favourite! And Sheila On 7? Hmm...I only like one song. (And I forgot the title! So that does not really count as "Favourite" la, kan?!) ;p

And moving on to the "Movies" section.. Hurmmm..... Of all the movies he/she listed above, I have only watched one movie among those!! So yeahhh... Favourite lah sangat kannn.... Pffft.

So nope. That does not sound like Shazwani Hamid with this real face at all!! -_-"

Next...the "Favourite Television" section, none of those sound like me!!! CSI? Never watch! Dr. House?  I don't have Star World channel anymoreee. SpongeBob? For cartoons, I only watch Disney's cartoons. And blablabla......seriously, none of those are my fave channels!

And next..is the interesting part... The "Games"... hmm... Badminton and Futsal, ey?? HA. HA. You've got to be kidding me! The last time I play badminton when I was 11, and then I stop because I was injured and swore to myself that I would never play sports anymore (because I keep on getting scars and injured and what not). And Futsal? Well... I did play once dulu - If you count as dressing up in a sports attire in pink and putting on a matching trainers with your "sports bag", and only went into the court for like 3 minutes, and run from the ball (cuz you were scared of getting injured), and ended up watching your friends play futsal while you eat Mister Potato, as playing futsal lahh..... ;p


Hmm..anyway, by looking at this person's information... I don't know why... I sense that this person is a HE. Just look at his fave TV shows.. his Movies, his activities...
I mean....  I think,most of my readers or stalkers (heh ;p) in here are mostly women righttt...and this is a girly blog... But none of those things that he put up...sounded girly. At least in my eyes....

Oh my.... If it's a HE, it'll be much much much moreeeeee scarier!!!!


I mean... who would do such thinggg....and steal people's photo (or rather..life) and pretend that it's theirs??

This is patheticly sickkk.... =(

Oh look... there's an album for "Balik Hometown", curik from my entry that I balik from Saudi! Pfffft. Hmm... I wonder...what was on his/her mind la...

Seriously. I REALLLLLYY wanna know! (He even put up my dad and my sister's photo!!!! >_<)


"Okay... Apa lagi aku nak ambik eh.. Gambar mana yang interesting eh... Jom scroll lagiii.... Hmm.. nak ambik gambar yang ni lahh... Konon-kononnya aku balik Kampong Kabong aku ni, naik MAS lah.....  *few minutes later*  ..... Okayy... done! Yeayyy..bestnya, best nyaa aku naik MAS!!"  haha ;p


"Okay..gambar pergi event dah. Gambar "aku" balik Kampong Kabong pun dahhh. Gambar apa lagi ehhh.... Hmm... Haaa....gambar aku nak pergi beli spek la pulakkkk.."

-__-'

Seriously. I REALLLYYYY WANNA KNOW WHAT ON EARTH WAS HE/SHE THINKING FOR DOING THIS??!


Haihhh... Maybe he/she was just wanted attention kot... Or maybe this is just a sick joke that he/she intended to do for me... Hmmm.. whatever your reason is, mister/mistress whoever your REAL NAME is.... PLEASE delete the account immediately! I have made what I should do..and will take this case seriously. Take an action to close down that account, or I will!


And...in the mean time, to my readers, can you please do a favor for me by helping me to report it to Facebook admin.....

Just click at the bottom left side button (below your "Friends" icons), the "Report/Blocked This Person" button... And click "This profile is pretending to be someone or is fake"...and select "Someone that I know", and insert my name... Shazwani Hamid

Thank you so much guys!!! I would really really reallllyyyyy appreciate thissss!!!!!!!

*big hug!!!*

P/s: I really should start watermarking all of my pictures kannn? Haihh... -_-"






XOXO,
S.